When I met Rob, he was 66 years old and quietly unraveling.
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Recently retired, he should have been settling into a slower season of life. Instead, he was facing crushing debt after being targeted by fraud. A medication change had intensified his OCD symptoms. Anxiety spiraled into catastrophic thinking. One afternoon in a grocery store, the rising cost of food felt so overwhelming that he broke down in tears. He was convinced financial ruin was inevitable!
What most people couldn’t see was how close he was to giving up.
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Rob began working with CMHA Saskatoon vocational counsellors while trying to determine if he would need to return to full-time work just to survive. Together, we explored practical next steps: selling vehicles, simplifying expenses, addressing fraudulent debt with legal support, creating a realistic budget.
And alongside those practical steps, something equally important was happening.
He was reminded that he had choices.
He was encouraged to address his mental health as symptoms escalated.
He was supported, not rescued, as he took responsibility for his recovery.
Rob chose to ask for help!
He chose hospital care when he needed it.
He chose to try treatment, even when he was skeptical.
He chose to attend family meetings and ask, “Where do we go from here?”
He chose to keep showing up.
And slowly, incrementally, things changed
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Before finding support, Rob believed everyone else had it together. He compared himself constantly to others, assuming they had no struggles, no debt, no fear. That isolation deepened his despair.
Now he says,
“Mental Health doesn’t have borders. Everyone deserves compassion and its effects ripple into the future.”
Today, Rob is retired. CMHA Saskatoon Counsellors helped him create a plan where he didn’t need to return to full-time work after all. He resolved much of his debt. He lives within a budget that brings stability instead of panic. When negative out of control thoughts rise, he tells himself,
“You’re not in the hospital. You have freedom.”
He attends his grandchildren’s activities.
He sings karaoke every week for connection and joy.
He shows up for his family the way they showed up for him.
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When a grandfather stabilizes his mental health, grandchildren experience presence instead of absence. When a parent seeks help, children learn that asking for support is strength. When one person chooses compassion over comparison, an entire family system softens.
Right now, many families in our community are navigating financial stress, anxiety, depression, intrusive thinking and suicidal thoughts, often in silence. Without accessible programs, some won’t reach out until crisis forces hospitalization.
Will you give generously today to strengthen CMHA Saskatoon’s mental health and family support programs so more people can ask for timely help?
Rob wants you to know,
“When you get so down, you feel like you’ll never get better. But you’ve been through this before. You can get through it again.”
With your support, more people will have the chance to believe that. And more families will feel the ripple of one person choosing to stay. Please give today!